Everyone should be familiar with the name Asperger Syndrome (AS), and we all know that it is not easy to live with Asperger’s syndrome. In addition to Elon Musk, Bill Gate is also suspected to have Asperger’s Syndrome.

People with Asperger’s syndrome will focus on things that interest them, but it does not mean that they do not care about other things. They are just not good at expressing them with expressions or body movements. In addition, people with Asperger’s syndrome are often bullied by their peers and often misunderstood in romantic relationships.

We will introduce you to the 4 major characteristics of people with Asperger’s syndrome and share the 5 key points in getting along with people with Asperger’s syndrome.

The 4 major traits of Asperger’s syndrome

Asperger’s syndrome has similar symptoms to autism spectrum disorder, so the American Psychiatric Association (APA) classifies Asperger’s syndrome into Autism Spectrum Disorder, or autism spectrum disorder. However, in the fifth edition of the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM-5) updated in 2013, the symptom diagnosis of Asperger’s syndrome was removed from the manual because its symptoms have been included in the manual. Among the many symptoms of autism spectrum disorder.

Asperger’s syndrome is not a disease. There is no way to “diagnose” it with a single test. Instead, it is judged by traits. The four most common traits include:

1. Have difficulty socializing with people
   
2. Repeated behaviors and fixed interests
   
3. Will stand still when thinking
   
4. Focus only on routine and routine

5 key points for dealing with people with Asperger’s Syndrome

Although people with Asperger’s syndrome have social difficulties, they also desire to talk to and love others. So if your partner has Asperger’s syndrome, or someone with similar traits, please remember the following 5 points:

1. Don’t blame the other person’s fault
   There will always be friction between couples, and they need to communicate and understand each other. Maybe the other person cannot meet your expectations, maybe you can’t understand the other person, and people with Asperger’s syndrome cannot read other people’s faces. They may have facial expressions or body language, or they may not be able to accurately understand how others are feeling. They may avoid eye contact when talking, or speak in a monotonous tone and expressionless face. Please remember that these traits are not directed at you.
   
2. Learn more about Asperger’s syndrome
   If you don’t understand the other person well enough, you will easily misunderstand the other person’s meaning. People with Asperger’s syndrome are not good at communication methods other than language, such as facial expressions, body communication, etc. Their way of expressing emotions is different from ordinary people, but this does not mean that they not give a damn about. Understanding more about the characteristics of Asperger’s syndrome can also effectively reduce the friction between two people.
   
3. Re-understand your partner’s behavior
   Maybe we will mistakenly think that the other person knows what we need but deliberately ignores our needs, but once we think so, there will be more friction between the two people, so we can try to use the method of making a list to understand Asper Why do people with personality traits get along with you like this? It should include specific scenarios or the other person’s behavior, or how these situations made you feel, as well as what the other person really thought.
   
4. State your thoughts specifically
   Many people think that the other half should be able to understand what they need, but in fact, unless the other half is psychic, there is no way to guess what you are thinking, let alone the other half who has social difficulties. You need to teach Asperger’s how to get along with you based on Berg’s characteristics? For example, you may think that saying good morning and good night every day, sending flowers on Valentine’s Day, etc. is what matters to you, so you list these behaviors as “rules” for two people. Personalized checklists that tell them when to do this without forcing them to “fully understand” why they do it.
   
5. Tell them you want to communicate more with each other
   Because you and your significant other handle emotions differently, emotional communication will certainly be more difficult. You might as well pick up a pen and paper and write down how the two of you want to improve communication with each other, write down what each other wants the other to do, or how to make the other party feel that you are communicating. Then exchange the lists listed by each other and follow what the other party wants. Interacting in a way that may strengthen the emotional connection between you.